Female Sex Drive Libido
Female Sex Drive Libido my analogy about the female sex drive and loss of interest in sex in a committed relationship by CSB Aleena Aspley 21-Feb-2019.
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DOES THE VAGINA HAVE TASTE BUDS?.
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My blog today is about my personal musings about why many females in a long term relationship lose interest in sex.
In my role as an Intimacy and Sex Coach, I frequently hear from male clients expressing concerns about the lack of sexual intimacy in their relationships with their female partners.
This got me thinking and I started to wonder if the female vagina actually has taste buds?
In the context of the intimate act of fluid bonding, does the taste of his ejaculation create a repetitive experience for her, akin to consuming the same meal week after week?
My next consideration was about whether nature has sneakily designed the female sex this way, to engineer variety into the human gene pool?
Hmmm… so, hypothetically, does the female vagina actually have taste buds?
Sounds silly perhaps, I’m thinking out aloud, but do hear me out.
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DOES THE VAGINA HAVE TASTE BUDS?
Female Sex Drive Libido
Do you have a favourite food?
I have an Italian background and I simply adore Spaghetti Bolognese.
Hence, my analogy regarding whether the female vagina has taste buds draws inspiration from my favourite dish, Spaghetti Bolognese.
VEGANS — Do imagine my Spaghetti Bolognese as a savory, plant-based delight—a wholesome, meat-free creation brimming with healthful goodness from nature.
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MY SPAGHETTI BOLOGNESE ANALOGY
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Imagine experiencing Spaghetti Bolognese for the first time in your life. The tantalizing aroma of the dish makes your mouth water.
You insert your fork into the rich-red, meaty sauce, twirl it, and capture a portion of spaghetti.
As soon as the forkful enters your mouth, your taste buds revel in an orgasmic delight.
From that moment on, Spaghetti Bolognese becomes your ultimate favorite, and you eagerly indulge in it as frequently as possible.
For the next few years, the dish maintains its allure. The velvety spice and combined texture of the sauce and noodles continue to evoke a rapturous dance of ecstasy for your taste buds.
However…
Fast forward three to five years, and you find yourself growing weary of eating Spaghetti Bolognese.
The once bold taste now seems less flavorful, and your once-beloved dish fails to make your mouth water.
Now the thrill of dining on your favourite meal loses it’s desire.
Therefore, you don’t wish to dine on your once favourite dish as often, if ever again!
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NATURE
A STRONG GENE POOL
Female Sex Drive Libido
Does she biologically lose interest in sex, because nature has subconsciously wired her, to want to create a stronger human gene pool?
A small gene pool is generally bad for a species, because it reduces variation.
A large gene pool provides a good buffer against genetic diseases.
Some of the common genetic problems, that occur when the gene pool shrinks, are low fertility, deformities and genetic diseases.
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VARIETY
IS ACTUALLY THE SPICE OF LIFE!
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Maybe it’s not inherent for many humans to commit to a lifelong mate and engage in intimate relations with that partner indefinitely, savoring the Spaghetti Bolognese of life until the end.
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Is it possible that society, our families, and religious institutions are misguided in promoting lifelong relationship fidelity and pair bonding for humans?
Is monogamy a normal state for human beings?
Does the human body still think that we are living in a tribal community? This means that all mothers and children are looked after by the whole tribe. So, it wouldn’t be an issue if a female had children from different partners.
Could the repetitive nature of her partner’s sexual energy and ejaculation, even in a content and committed relationship, result in a decreased interest in sex, feelings of fatigue, and even headaches?
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THE SEVEN YEAR ITCH
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I’m sure you’ve probably heard about the seven-year itch? This notion suggests that long-term couples may experience a period of relationship stagnation or dissatisfaction around the seven-year mark.
Researchers suggest that the euphoric phase of romantic love is biologically unsustainable in humans. Around the two-year mark, our body hormones and chemicals come into play, transforming the initial euphoria into the less overtly passionate attachment phase for individuals in a relationship.
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MONOGAMY — the notion of only having a relationship and sex with the same person.
POLYGAMY — the practice or custom of having more than one wife or husband at the same time.
JEALOUSY — is one of the biggest obstacles in romantic relationships and giving one’s partner an occasional “Hall Pass” would cause issues in many committed relationships.
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AN OCCASIONAL HALL PASS
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In closing, perhaps it could be sexually freeing for people of all genders, in a committed and happy relationship to partake in an occasional fast food fix?
Perhaps eating out occasionally, and experiencing the new sexual energy delights of another human’s Spaghetti Bolognese, could add some spice and new energy into a couple’s relationship.
I’m very sure it could make one’s face smile afterwards with an enthusiastic Dolmio grin!!! 🙂
NOTE: I do advocate safe sex practices.
Written by Aleena Aspley www.AleenaAspley.com.au (24/10/13)
(Updated on 20/2/19 & 5/1/24)
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