Gender Reassignment Surgery Brisbane
Gender Reassignment Surgery Brisbane with Rochella, her journey from male to female with Aleena Aspley Certified Sexological Bodyworker, based in North Brisbane.
A JOURNEY FROM MALE TO FEMALE GENDER
Written by Aleena Aspley on 22 November 2019
I am so grateful to be able to give holistic Yoni Awakening Massage and Yoni Orgasmic Mapping bodywork to many different people, from all walks in life, at my Brisbane Yoni Whisperer Bodywork studio.
Last week I was very fortunate to meet a transgender client called Rochella – her name has been changed to protect her client confidentiality. Rochella had been classified as male when she was born and had lived unhappily for much of her life having to identify as male, until 2015 when she began to transition and present as her true gender. In March this year (2019) Rochella travelled to Bangkok, Thailand for gender reassignment surgery (GRS).
We sat and chatted for quite a while, as I like to take a full comprehensive medical and health history from my new clients, and of course, I was extremely interested in Rochella’s gender transitioning story.
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WHY BOOK A YONI WHISPERER BODYWORK SESSION?
Rochella booked a Yoni Whisperer Bodywork session with me to learn about her new female body.
During our pre-appointment conversation, Rochella opened up about her post-surgery concerns, revealing her apprehension regarding self-pleasure and the fear of potential harm to her recently healed vagina. Despite being aware of her complete recovery, she confessed to feeling uncertain about how to arouse her newly acquired female genitalia and expressed a genuine fear of experimentation. Additionally, she admitted to being unsure about which sex toys would be suitable for her and how to effectively stimulate herself to achieve orgasm.
As Rochella stepped up to my front door, I couldn’t help but express my admiration for her incredible appearance. Standing tall with a stunning full head of hair, flawlessly applied makeup, neatly polished fingernails, a captivating dress, a stylish handbag, and fashionable sandals, she exuded an undeniable aura of elegance. I was truly astonished by her remarkable transformation, as she graciously shared with me her past pictures when she presented as male.
We spoke at length during Rochelle’s Yoni Whisperer Bodywork session. Rochelle said she had absolutely no regrets about transitioning or having gender reassignment surgery. She clearly loves being a woman and feels much more at home presenting as her true female gender self.
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GENDER REASSIGNMENT SURGERY
Rochella said her surgery took around 5 hours, she spent 4 days with her genitals wrapped in bandages and she experienced 7 days with a catheter inserted into her bladder.
She said she was discharged from hospital after 4 days and had to return to have her catheter removed. Rochella said that she spent three weeks all up away from Australia, much of it in a lot of pain. I could understand why she might fear exploring the potential of her new Yoni.
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HER NEW YONI / VAGINA
Rochella had to wait one month, before she could start using dilators, to keep her new vagina open, while she healed. She said she was discharged from hospital, with 4 dilators of different sizes. To begin with, she had to use these daily, but she now feels that once a week is sufficient.
Prior to Rochella’s Yoni Whisperer appointment, I took the time to research her surgical procedure. I understood it was huge experience, for her, emotionally, physically and mentally.
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Gender Reassignment Surgery Brisbane
GENDER REASSIGNMENT SURGERY MALE TO FEMALE
Reassigning and changing the male anatomy to female anatomy requires removing the penis, reshaping genital tissue to appear more female and constructing a vagina.
An incision is made into the scrotum, the testes are removed and the flap of skin is pulled back. Surgeons also create a clitoris (clitoroplasty), usually from the highly-sensitive glans found at the tip of the penis.
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YONI WHISPERER MASSAGE AND ORGASMIC MAPPING BODYWORK
Once Rochella had reached a state of comfort, I respectfully excused myself from the room to allow her privacy while she undressed. Upon my return, I attentively covered her with towels, an approach I extend to all my female clients. Recognizing the potential nervousness and vulnerability that can accompany being unclothed, I find it crucial to create a safe and reassuring environment for them.
The Yoni Whisperer Bodywork (YWB) session commenced with a soothing massage, designed to induce deep relaxation. The ultimate objective of every YWB session is to create an atmosphere where my client can fully unwind, enabling them to experience the diverse sensations that come with receiving intimate, one-way touch.
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Gender Reassignment Surgery Brisbane
CONSENT – “YES” – “NO” – “NOT SURE” – “I DON’T LIKE THAT”
Rochella embarked on a transformative journey of embracing her newfound embodiment and cultivating a profound sense of presence within her own body. Throughout our sessions, we delved into the vital topic of consent, emphasizing the significance of honoring her boundaries as she navigated her new female identity.
It is a common experience for many women to suppress their sensual selves and struggle to reach orgasm if their personal boundaries have not been respected in the past. Human beings have a tendency to withdraw and become guarded when intimate touch has been imposed upon them without explicit permission.
Women, in particular, can experience a dampening effect on their libido, sexual desire, and potential for orgasm when their boundaries are violated by unwelcome advances. Thus, the act of honoring and respecting our personal boundaries, emerges as a crucial element, when awakening the female body to pleasure and experiencing orgasm.
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LIKES AND DISLIKES
Understanding one’s personal preferences and knowing how they desire to be physically touched is of utmost significance for women. Rochella’s participation in the YWB session marked a transformative experience for her, enabling her to grasp the importance of personal consent. Through this session, she learned to confidently communicate her likes and dislikes, giving explicit verbal consent or withdrawing consent if she encountered any form of unwanted touch.
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EXTERNAL YONI MASSAGE
Once Rochella was completely relaxed, I ask permission to give her an internal & external Yoni Massage.
It was absolutely amazing, witnessing Rochella’s sensual response, to having her labia majora (outer lips) and labia minora (inner lips) massaged. Rochella’s clitoris was very sensitive and her response to external vulval massage, was very stimulating and highly arousing for her.
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Gender Reassignment Surgery Brisbane
VAGINAL ORGASMIC MAPPING
Once Rochella felt ready and comfortable, I asked permission to orgasmically map her new vagina.
Wow, what a mind blowing experience. Rochella discovered that she would easily feel pleasure and she was highly responsive to orgasm.
While witnessing Rochella’s first intense vaginal K-spot orgasm, I then saw the largest smile of pure happiness light up her whole face and then Rochella said – “golly I never knew female orgasm could feel like that!”
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MORE ORGASMS?
I asked Rochella if she would like to experience more? She was wildly amazed, that she could experience orgasm, in all the places that I awaken and stimulate orgasm, in the female vagina.
Rochella ecstatically felt all of the following orgasms – K-spot, R-spot, Spiral Spot, Cervical, A-Spot and G-Spot. We also experimented with blended clitoral orgasms and different types of vaginal stimulation.
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A HUGE SMILE
At the end of her YWB session, Rochella had a smile from ear to ear, she was so unbelievably happy and felt confident in her new body. Rochella said “I had no idea, that the female body could be so orgasmic and that I could experience so many different kinds of orgasms!“
At the end of her Yoni Whisperer Bodywork session, Rochella got dressed and we had a conversation about the different types of vibrators which she may like to purchase.
We talked about my Yoni Whisperer Orgasmic Mapping techniques, the importance of breath, focus, kegels and sound to spread orgasm into every cell of her body and into her Auric / Luminous Energy Field outside the human body.
Rochella left my Yoni Whisperer Bodywork studio orgasmically, blissed-out with a disheveled, messy hairdo and a huge smile.
For me, I just feel so very fortunate, grateful and thankful to the universe, that I have the opportunity, to work with people, who have had Gender Reassignment Surgery.
I just love awakening people, into their vastly infinite human orgasmic potential.
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Gender Reassignment Surgery Brisbane
ABOUT ME
Aspley Aspley is a Certified Sexological Bodyworker, (Somatic Sexologist), NEO Tantra Professional, Kinesiology N.O.T Therapy, Tibetian Reiki and owner of Kinkassage® and Kundalini awakening bodywork called Chakrassage.
Aleena is the owner of Yoni Whisperer Bodywork (Women), Lingam Whisperer Bodywork (Men) and Orgasmic Mastery for Couples.
CONTACT ME:
Ms. Aleena Aspley
Brisbane Australia
www.AleenaAspley.com
Phone: 0404 449 433
International: +61 404 449 433
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Gender Reassignment Surgery Brisbane
* Rochella – Client confidentiality is extremely important to me, and Rochella is a similar name to the real name of the female gender reassignment client that I saw.
* Gender-reassignment surgery (sometimes called gender-confirmation surgery or gender-affirmation surgery) is one way (but not the only way) that individuals with gender dysphoria transition from their birth gender to their desired gender.
* Transgender – denoting or relating to a person whose sense of personal identity and gender does not correspond with their birth sex.
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EXPLORING THE JOY OF FEMININE PLEASURE — Holistic Healing Yoni Massage Bodywork Brisbane
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TEN AWESOME VAGINAL ORGASMS – Her Orgasmic Potential is Unlimited!
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GENDER REASSIGNMENT SURGERY BRISBANE