Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder

by  (16/4/13)

At a recent breakfast with a friend, the statement “beauty is in the eye of the beholder” came to mind when we were discussing a male she is interested in.   Having seen photos of the man, my opinion was that he was an average looking male, nothing outstanding, nothing to shout from the rooftops about – I don’t know the man all I know is what I saw on a photo.

When she started describing to me that when he comes into a room she is awestruck by how handsome he is and how much she loves just seeing him I realised with a resounding thwack to the head, that the reason we are each beautiful to different people is because they know the inner beauty and that is what they see.

I don’t see this man as she does because I don’t have an intimate or personal connection with him.

Whilst I am someone who has long stood behind not judging a book by its cover and that you have to read the pages to really see what a book is about and it was just so glaringly obvious during this conversation. We must have an inner connection with someone before we can truly appreciate their beauty in its entirety.

The universe, in all its wisdom, this week has shown up the latest ad by Dove – a company that uses its marketing well to identify beauty in women.   This ad is truly inspirational as you watch women being sketched simply by their descriptions of themselves and not by the artist visually seeing them.



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Yoni Whisperer - Aleena Aspley of North Brisbane Australia is a Certified Somatic Sexologist, (Sexological Bodyworker) USA 2010 ALEENA'S CREDENTIALS. Certified Somatic Sexologist (Sexological Bodyworker) USA 2010 Over eight years experience relaxing people of all Genders-since 2005 Owner of Kinkassage Sensual & Adventurous Erotic Adult Massage Owner of Tantra Kinkassage Sublime Transformational & Intuitive Tantric Adult Massage Owner Of Domme Kinkassage Avant-garde, Playful & Edgy Domination for Adults Male Multiples Makeover for Men - Multiple Orgasm / Ejaculation Optional Quodoushka 1 & 2 Graduate March 2014 Angel Intuitive Graduate with Doreen Virtue 2013 Certificate in Lomi Lomi Hawaiian relaxation Urban Tantra Professional with Barbara Carrelas 2012 Certified Bondassage Practitioner 2011 Reiki 1&2 2010 Theta Healer 2010 Dakini Course with Triambica 2011 USA Andrew Barnes-Awakening Within Institute- Luminous Energy Orgasms 2011 Reflexology Certificate 1996 Les Mills PUMP instructor Training 1995 Lifeline Telephone Befriender 1995 Certificate in Human movement as a Fitness Trainer 1989 FUTURE COURSES OF INTEREST TO ME Chakradance (2014) Sweet Medicine Shamanic De-armoring (2014) Sweet Medicine Red Lodge Program (2015)